#KendallsKindness

Why we are here.

Butterfly Kendall's Kindness

Our Mission

Kendall’s Kindness is dedicated to spreading compassion and positivity within our community. Our mission is to inspire individuals to engage in random acts of kindness, creating a ripple effect that uplifts others and promotes mental well-being. We believe that through kindness, we can build meaningful connections, enhance lives, and ensure that kindness becomes a way of life for all.

Kendall Maffia

Kendall was a kind, thoughtful, funny, smart and a talented young woman.  She loved to be creative, loved to listen to all kinds of music, and enjoyed spending time with her family and friends. Kendall loved to bake, water and snow ski, be adventurous and wanted nothing more than to make people feel important and loved.  Kendall was always so thoughtful and generous with her time and talent.

Unfortunately on October 11, 2021 she lost her battle to suicide.

Kendall would want to be remembered for all the kind gestures that she did for others.  She loved to bake treats and make bracelets, she welcomed new employees at work and asked if they wanted to go out for ice cream. Kendall always made sure everyone was having a good day and put others before herself. Kendall was the light in everyone’s eyes but unfortunately, she did not leave enough light for herself or feel the love others gave to her.

Kendall's Kindness Scholarship Fund

The Kendall’s Kindness Scholarship Fund was created by the Maffia Family in loving memory of Kendall Marie Maffia (6/12/2000-10/11/2021), their daughter, sister, niece, and granddaughter.

Two $1,000 scholarships will provide funding for two graduating seniors from either St. Charles North High School or St. Charles East High School. The Kendall’s Kindness Scholarship is intended for students who are planning to continue their education at a 4-year college and will major in an Arts-related degree.

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Kendall's Artwork & Photography

Take your kindness online

From scrolling social media to attending virtual meetings, our lives are more online today than ever and unfortunately it’s even easier to hurt someone’s feelings when you’re hiding behind a screen. Take your kindness online and remember there is a person behind that email, social profile, or text.

Think Before You Comment or Send a Message

Be smart about what you’re saying and how you are saying it. On social media you have the power to connect with people from all over the world, so use this opportunity to spread positivity.

Assume Positive Intentions

If someone posts a selfie, take the time to tell them how much you appreciate them. Use the magic of instant communication to reach out to old friends to send them positive messages.

Speak Online as You Would in Person

When there is a screen between you and the other person, it is easy to forget that on the other side of that screen is another person just trying to do their best. Always remember that behind every avatar is a real person with real feelings.
Butterfly Kendall's Kindness
"Kendall taught me everything I knew in track and I always looked up to her in art. If it weren't for her showing me they’re aren't any boundaries between the art community, sports, and being yourself, I wouldn’t be who I am today!"
Bethany
"She was always bringing me coffee home from Starbucks, or making smoothies every morning when I’d be studying, baking for us, making me a Halloween gift basket and study basket. I don’t think I’ll ever have a friend who was as thoughtful and selfless as her."
Erika
"Kendall was a beautiful gift to those who met her. Through Kendall’s Kindness you have honored her with such honesty & beauty & love- her legacy will remind people that kindness matters most."
Lisa
"Every butterfly I see steals a moment out of my day to remember Kendall Marie."
Kerry Lea
"Kendall’s smile let out a ray of light that could be seen for miles. She was the kind of person that even in the wake of her sadness, would take on more by giving herself to those who needed her. The birth of Kendall’s Kindness keeps her spirit alive. Keep up the great work! She is so proud of you, as we are."
Jackie
"Kendall’s Kindness is amazing! Thank you for our honesty in sharing Kendall’s story with others. You are helping so many. I have made cookies and shared. You are so right, “Random Acts of Kindness Matter.” Especially in the world we are living in."
Gaye
"I was rooting for her- loved her style, her thoughts, her self, the way she took up space in the world. Her eyes were piercing and she had a way of making you feel heard, known, loved when in her presence, physical or otherwise."
Aislen
"Kendall continues to reach so many people through your family’s willingness to be vulnerable. Thank you for sharing all of her with us."
Mary Beth
"Thank you for creating Kendall’s Kindness, you are making a difference."
Tanya
"I just wanted to let you know that Kendall was one of the most wonderful students I ever knew. She was always so kind, sweet, and helpful. For many years I saved the notebook she created in 6th grade as a sample for all other 6th graders to follow...even when I moved to 7th grade I kept it for a long time. Her schoolwork and artwork that decorated it was amazing. I'm so fortunate that I was able to spend a year in school with Kendall. Her smile always brightened the room and she treated everyone with great respect. Thank you, too, for Kendall's Kindness, as a way that people like me can try to give back in loving memory of Kendall. She was truly one of a kind and it is a huge loss for all of us that she is gone. "
Jeff
"I know you hear this all the time, but you are doing such amazing important work in her name ... I know her blue eyes are twinkling in the night sky with so much love and gratitude for keeping her spirit alive and purposeful. Big hugs to you all."
Jenni
“She was so fun. She brought so much joy and light to my life and I will forever be changed for the better because of the impact she had on my life. I just loved Kendall a lot and needed to make sure someone knew. She was one of the brightest lights in my young life and I will forever be grateful for the woman she was and the woman she helped me to become.”
Elizabeth
"Kendall was such a beautiful and kind person with so much talent. This world has lost a truly beautiful soul."
Stephanie
“When I get sad thinking about her, I try to remind myself of how lucky I was to have been a part of her world. She inspired me with her kindness, and I’d like to believe she is now a part of all the kindnesses that are happening every day. I know she is on the “Kindness Council” (if there is such a thing in heaven) influencing us all to do better, be better!"
Caryn
That's the reason I'm smiling today because Kendall's smiling down on us!
Peyton
"So amazing, but what is truly amazing is how you honor Kendall. Your dedication to teaching and show others about love and loss is truly beautiful. I know she is so honored that you share not only her story but her love.... May the butterflies on the building and in hearts always fly free."
Cindy

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